H.U.S.B.A.N.D

Husband.
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You are NOT my achievement. You are my special channel on the journey of resilient and flourishing love. You are one of the languages that Allah SWT has “spoken” to me as a something-borrowed gift I’m grateful for. I desire this journey to resilient and flourished love with you and I can’t go through it without Allah’s Willing.
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Karunia cinta dari Allah SWT sungguh tak terbatas. Ada berjuta macam cinta yg diciptakan Allah SWT utk mewarnai perjalanan hidup ciptaanNya. Cinta yg kita rasakan bersama orang tua, saudara kandung, keluarga besar, sahabat, teman, dan sesama dimanapun berada. Pun terhadap diri sendiri, sosok idola, role model, bersama alam dan binatang, cinta itu hadir. Ya. They teach us that cinta tak melulu erotika dan buta. Cinta yg tulus, tak mengharap balas pun menjadi suatu pelajaran yg indah yg kita rasakan dlm hidup. Pun demikian anak, baik itu darah daging sendiri maupun adopted. They are NOT achievement. They are a special channel & gift from Allah SWT sbg jalan kita merasakan keindahan kompleksitas cinta. Subhanallah. .
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Ada suatu masa dlm hidup saya dimana saya pernah begitu sombong tdk ingin & tak butuh menikah, knowing that having me, myself and I were enough. I was happy being single. I really enjoyed the freedom I had to explore around love with whoever I felt fit with all of the ups and downs of falling in love and broken hearts. I thought that was a real fun. I even thought marriage was really unnecessary and I thought I knew everything about love. Then….bam; a beautiful lesson learned called husband happens. Being married to him has transformed my happiness & given me ways to feel the kind of love I once thought I felt and knew. It has expanded the dimension of love that I can feel with beautiful complexity I never thought existing (which I’ve lost words to describe). .
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Jadi, tiap pernikahan, tiap pasangan, tiap keluarga will create unique types of love yg hanya bisa dirasa oleh ybs. Tak ada yg sama & it shall not be compared to one another. Berbahagialah yg sudah diberikan titipan seorang suami/istri/anak. The journey to resilient and flourishing love telah Allah SWT perkenankan utk dijalani#2019

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. maspohon says:

    terima kasih atas ceritanya kak 😀

    1. Wini says:

      Terima kasih kembali mas Seto 🙂

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